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Age 13; Kazakstan, Karaganda. Happiness is a philosophical concept, and every family has its own HAPPINESS. Happiness in our family was SASHENKA.
Sasha was borne on July 16th, 1989, in the city of Karaganda, in Kazakhstan.
 Happiness is a philosophical concept, and every family has its own HAPPINESS. Happiness in our family was SASHENKA.
Sasha was borne on July 16th, 1989, in the city of Karaganda, in Kazakhstan.
We awaited her birth with such impatience. We were filled with a feeling of happiness and pride, which comes giving birth to a new person on Earth. A new time began in our family, the time of Sashenka's growth and maturation.
We were joyful at her first little tooth, her first baby steps, and her first word. A feeling of pride enveloped us when Sasha, at 3 years of age, learned the alphabet and read her first words.
From an early age she was a life-loving and cheerful child. Everything interested her. First, she loved having books endlessly read to her, and then she began to read to herself. She especially loved to read books on history, or about great journeys. Thus inspired, Sasha would tell all about countries and their cities, about museums, music that she loved, theater, and painting. It was always interesting to discuss her new knowledge with her. Through Sasha's prism of perception, everything known became so bright, so unforgettable, and so new. We delighted in it all with her.
Sasha wrote stories, poems, and thought up games. Her great passion was the computer.
Sasha’s appearance was that of a tender, frail little girl, but she adored bicycle riding, roller skating, and skateboarding. Riding bikes with adults, she traveled about the entire city. She entertained everyone on the ride with her love of nature, and she loved riding to our dacha. And, of course, she loved animals, especially cats, dogs, and horses.
 But the most surprising love that Sasha had was for people. Even at only 13 years of age, she already had a strong, winning personality, which was never indifferent, and knew when to bear responsibility for others. Her classmates said: "Sasha had lots of friends, and she never quarreled with anyone, ever. We called her the 'lawyer', because she’d solve not just our class conflicts, but other classes, and we followed her advice, and even her decisions. She knew how to solve any problem. Because of this, she was greatly respected in the school."
And certainly, one cannot fail to speak about her love for her parents and friends. Somehow, she loved them each their own way. She was so tender, and in this so very, very strong. We looked on her as everyone's child, and friend. She would find a warm word for everyone, and wanted to care for all of us all in our old age. We were very happy with her.
We have now been deprived of our happiness. They took away our Sasha. Now all that remains is the pain of loss, and the MEMORY of this amazingly bright, thirteen year old girl.
Who will answer for this??
No one wants to answer!
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1. О Саше
Written by Галина, on 11-03-2007 10:01
Начинала несколько раз писать о Саше, но никак не получалось. Начинаю вспоминать - наворачиваются слезы...
Вспоминаю, как Роза приехала к нам домой с Сашенькой. Почему-то Саша не хотела фотографироваться, зато нас фоткала с удовольствием. Пока мы возились на кухне, она вволю наигралась с животными, качалась на качелях. Она всегда была беспроблемным ребенком, не требовала особого внимания, умела сама найти занятие по душе. Оба Коли любили с нею повозиться, показать приемчики борьбы, просто поболтать. Кота Кузю она затаскала до его умопомрачения, а собака Джерри позволяла делать с ней все, что угодно, чем Сашуня и воспользовалась. Мы посадили Джерри на цепь, боялись за ребенка, но, как оказалось, совершенно напрасно. Саша на собаке и сидела, и лежала, а Джери все это терпела, и даже не уронила ее цепью (как неоднократно поступала со мной).
Саша часто стоит у меня перед глазами. Особенно тот случай, когда мы приехали к вам домой, чтобы забрать всякие банки-склянки в подвал. Тогда у вас уже была кошка Дашка, которая с удовольствием прыгала по приготовленным мешкам, а Саша висела на перекладине в дверях. Коля над ней подшучивал - какая она белокожая, голубоглазая, длинноволосая. Спрашивал, дружит с мальчиками или нет. А когда в 2002 году Саша постриглась, мы все сокрушались, зачем она отрезала такие красивые длинные волосы. Потом пришли к мнению, что и так вроде ничего, но раньше было лучше.
А как боялись за Сашу, что она простудится, и не пошли в аквапарк? Это было 29 августа 2002 года, как раз перед школой. В тот день мы пошли в "Алладин" - Роза с Сашей и я с крестницей Юлькой. Мы по секрету от Юлиной мамы устроили "праздник живота". Получилось здорово - и девчонкам было интересно, и мы посидели хорошо. А уж чего только они не пробовали! И салатики, и жареную картошку, и тортики, и напитки...
Юлька очень сильно плакала, когда узнала, что Сашеньки больше нет...
Я часто задумываюсь, что было бы, если... Наверное, лучше не думать.
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2. Written by Карлуша, on 02-07-2007 08:34
About Sasha
Written by Galina, on 11-03-2007 10:01
I started to write about Sasha several times, but it just never turned out right. I would start to remember, and tears would begin to flow...
I remember when Roza came to our house with little Sashenka. For some reason Sasha didn't want her picture taken, but she loved to take our picture. While we were busy in the kitchen, she played outside with the animals and swung on the swing set. She was a child without problems, never demanding much attention, and could find something she loved doing. Both Kolyas loved to carry her around or simply play around. She dragged Kuzya the cat around until he was half-senseless, while Jerry the dog let Sashunya do anything she wanted to him. We put Jerry on a chain, because we were worried about the child, but it turned out to be in vain. Sasha went and saddled up the dog, and lay on him, while Jerry just put up with it all, and never even tripped her with his chain (as he always did to me).
Sasha often still stands before me. There was one time when we'd gone to her parents house to get jars and such from the cellar. Back then they had a cat named Dasha who would jump around on the bags we'd prepared, while Sasha hung by her arms from the doorframe. Kolya joked with her - how fair-skinned and blue-eyed she was, with long hair. He asked if she had any boyfriends or not. But in 2002 Sasha had her hair cut short and we asked why she had cut off such pretty long hair. Later we came to the opinion that it was no big deal, but better before.
Remember how we worried about Sasha, that she'd catch cold, and didn't let her go to the aquapark? It was August 29th, 2002, just before school began. On that day we went to the restaurant 'Alladin', Roza and Sasha and me with her godmother Yulka. Secretly we'd arranged a "holiday for the belly". It was great - the girls found it interesting had we all had a good time. What did we not try that day! Salads and french fries and cakes and beverages...
Yulka cried when she found out Sashenka was no more...
I often think how it would have been, if...
Perhaps it's better not to think.
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3. Саша, младшая двоюродная сестра
Written by Яна, on 30-08-2007 20:09
Я до сих пор помню, какая меня била истерика, когда я узнала, что моя двоюродная сестра погибла...
Я видела ее всего два раза в жизни, но и этого мне хватило, чтобы навсегда проникнуться к ней всей душой.
У нас была небольшая разница, всего 11 месяцев. Я до сих пор не могу спокойно спать, в период с 26 по 30 октября, становится больно, очень больно в эти дни.
Иногда мне кажется что это произошло не в нашей семье, не с нами, и все хорошо, все живы, все счастливы.
Саша иногда снится мне, я пыталась забыть этот кошмар. Но не могу. Это очень большой удар. Все что у меня осталось, это 5 фотографий, где мы вместе.
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